It’s going to be fine.
Housework: OMG, so much to do. The floors are filthy. BUT, I have realised he is not coming over to inspect the housework. It needs to be clean but it does not need to be perfectly tidy. He’s not going to turn around and go home if he sees the ironing board being used as a shelf for yarn.
Getting in Shape: OK, I am probably not going to be a size 8 by tomorrow. BUT we were chatting just now and even though he is young and ridiculously buff, his last girlfriend was 50, so unless she was a professional athlete, I can probably stop worrying (so much) about taking my clothes off.
Mmm. Young, hot guys whose last girlfriend was 50. Ain’t nothing to complain about.